If it were me, I would definitely leave his select team or whatever. The fact that he is her HS coach complicates things a lot. I don't know what to tell you there, but I do know that typically HS sports to me seem to be even more about winning and the fact that it's his actual job and could be fired for not winning- I doubt that he would bench a player and put his livelihood in any kind of jeopardy like that.


It sounds like he is incompetent to me. He gets a ringer and then she doesn't have to pay the fee? I don't understand that.