Originally Posted by
BB30
You are correct and I am not sure why we let the actions of a few dictate our thoughts on the group as a whole. For both the cops and protesters. My issue is you are starting to see cops come out and call out bad cops.
Why don't we see that from the BLM movement? If they would just call out their bad apples and come out and state we aren't for lawlessness etc. I don't think as many people would have an issue with protesting.
In fact, I would bet many on this board would be more open to peaceful protests even if they didn't agree with the premise if that was all that it was. But BLM leading the "movement" is bad as a figure head because they also stand for some things that will only make the situation in inner cities worse such as getting rid of the nuclear family.
Do you know BLM has raised over a billion dollars and not a dime of that has gone to inner cities directly(IE community centers etc.)
The problem won't change until we get into inner cities and get these young fatherless kid's mentors or somebody they can look up to and learn from.
The solution at face value is simple, it just requires an immense amount of work that people aren't willing to do.
What I would do:
_For the cops-
counter to what some think, I would raise pay of police officers and make it a career where you can make a decent living and get paid for the risk you are taking. This would provide an incentive for better qualified candidates to join.
I would provide consistent training for officers that continues after they are in the force and require a monthly amount of paid hours spent on training in both deescalation practices etc.
-For the impoverished communities-
More community centers, YMCAs etc.
More after school programs for young kids to try things they may otherwise not have the opportunity to try. whether that is having a mentor to take a kid hunting/fishing, going to learn to ride horses etc. This would allow for the kid to find something he or she is passionate in and can pursue. The biggest thing is that this stays consistent from the time they are young through high school. Give them a reason to not fall into the gang life etc.
1 to 1 mentorship programs with men that keep reaching out and keep helping these kids whether it is providing clothes/taking the kid out to eat once or twice a week/just being there for them as much as possible.
I know the latter is going to be hard to do for every kid and would be a huge undertaking. It would take people like us to get out in our impoverished communities and becoming involved in things that we may not necessarily be comfortable with in areas that we may not be comfortable with. But if you are wanting to solve the issue it would take a massive undertaking of the above. That is the only way this gets fixed.
Just giving money to people isn't going to change anything because many have been raised to live like they are. You are a product of your environment and how you grew up 99% of the time. If stealing/drugs/murder is all you have ever known to survive you can't possibly know or feel like there is an alternative.
While most of us on this board have grown up in different circumstances I would bet a large majority had someone or somebody that held them accountable and mentored/taught them and played a large role in who we have become. Whether that was a dad, brother, uncle, mom, family friend etc.
Most of the kids growing up in impoverished communities regardless of if it is a poor white trailer park or metro Chicago don't have that kind of a bond with a father figure and if they do it is usually a gang etc. and that is a problem.