A man who will cheat on his wife while she is pregnant with his third child while in his first year of running a top program doesn't have the sense God gave a goat but has the pecker of one. A man who will do that will do it over and over again. How many messes would he have caused over time. There is only so much room under the rug before the mess spills out into the open. Then when it finally does you have to explain why you swept it all under there in the first place instead of just taking out the trash.