Yesterday we found out that my wife had lost her first cousin to a motorcycle accident. 26 years old with a 1 year old. My wife's family is huge and is very tight nit so they are taking this very hard. They are grieving heavily and everyone is posting pics and memories on FB. They are crushed. Reason I'm posting that here is because it's hit me in the gut too. My last convo with him was at a big family party recently where me and him were off to the side just hanging out by the water. Without going in to great detail, it was the most personal convo I've ever had with the guy. We talked about family in the senses that we were, kids, jobs, future, etc.. I had grown fond of him over the time I've been with my wife. I don't feel like I lost a distant, by-marriage cousin. I feel like I lost my cousin way too early. Me having my first kid on the way and imagining his son not having a dad has been tough. I'm not posting anything on any social media about it because I don't want to take any attention off the immediate family. They're crushed and they need all the attention, thoughts, and prayers. I also feel like the best thing to do is put on a strong front for my wife and be supportive of her in a time of need. I also didn't feel like the main board was appropriate for this either; too many eyes. I've appreciated the guys on this forum so I felt like this is the right place to put it. I'm not asking for prayers or attention, I just want to remind everyone to cherish the time you have with your family and friends around you. Nothing is promised and every day is a blessing. Thanks for hearing me out.