I know two on the list. Both married. Sad stuff
Actually know 3 but the third is a college student who isn't married. No idea why he is on there
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I know two on the list. Both married. Sad stuff
Actually know 3 but the third is a college student who isn't married. No idea why he is on there
I agree. And it's definitely different than a dui... apples and oranges. If you purposefully harm someone else (and having an affair is doing that. just ask someone who's been cheated on.), then they deserve to know. I'd also want to know if anyone I'd potentially be with has been on there. I don't want to be with a cheater. Screw these people.
All that said, this should still be taken off the main board and added to the O.T. board.
Some of the email addresses are pretty funny. I saw on what was FURRHUNTERsomething at gmail and a MYSTEALTHsomething. You're not talking your way outta that.
Any guesses as to how many guys on here are on it, LOL?
and did anybody notice all the damn mexicans from campo grande (?) listed on the mississippi list? How did that happen?
Umm.... How about a big NO. This list didnt tear anything apart. How about the horn toads looking for some punany on the side caused this. If you are a known man whore then nobody will be judging you any different. However, if you are pretending to be an genuine family man and you are on the list then yes you will be looked at different and rightfully so. It's called a living a double life. These people just got caught with their pants down in more ways than one. (Pun intended)
As far as keeping it within the marriage if this list wasn't out then 99% of the ones being cheated on would not have any knowledge of their partner looking elsewhere. Now they have the chance to work it out between themselves and fix what was wrong with their relationship that caused one of them to seek out an affair. The ones that work itheir issues out will be stronger in the end. (No pun intended)
On a side note have you looked at the total amounts these guys were spending. Note to self build a more secure AM clone website and be rich.
I think that it must be noted that, while everyone on this list signed up, not all of them carried through with their original intentions. Now, that doesn't make significant others feel any better, but all of us face temptation daily.
And no, I'm not on the list.
Yeah, that is the excuse to use - I was just messing around...curious, I didn't actually do anything. I thought it was kind of weird and was just checking it out. I wanted to see if anybody I knew was on there....I couldn't help but look, etc.
Sounds ok, but the dollar amount next to the names is the death knell. Hard to play it off that way when you got four figures by your name. Same goes for the "I signed up for a friend to look at it".
What's really bad is I'm sure a LOT of these guys aren't loaded. They've probably told wifey they have to make sacrifices, with the kids too. Maybe no vacation this year, small Christmas, can't afford for the kids to do whatever this year. And now this pops up. That is tough.
Adultrey is extremely painful for one partner, no doubt. But I won't judge those on the list...... Matthew 5:28
Is this an invasion of privacy? Absolutely. Do I hate the fact that the list was released? Not at all.
If somebody wants to be a piece of shit and cheat on their spouse with someone else that is also married, then that is their decision, but don't ask me to feel bad for them when it is announced to the world that they are a scumbag.
John 7:24 "Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment". We are to discern right from wrong. Saying what they did is wrong is not judging that person it is a statement that according to God law that what they did is a sin. God will judge the sin but we are to still acknowledge the wrongness of the act, all the acts that we do that are against God. And whether or not they acted on the information from the site is irrelevant. Committing the act in your heart, attempting to fulfill your lust with someone other than your spouse is still adultery. Regardless if people go through with it. And if they are someone you know as a brother or sister in Christ then you have to rebuke them, per Christ himself. You have clearly outlined steps for this and for the forgiveness phase. But I hope most are not confusing Do Not Judge that anything is ok and we have no cause to say anything. That is against God and Christs teachings as well.
Quoting our favorite bible verses now?
"Master, Moses wrote unto us, If a man's brother die, and leave his wife behind him, and leave no children, that his brother should take his wife, and raise up seed unto his brother." (Mark 12:19)
Maybe some of these peoples brother died, so they were just doing what is right by the LORD.
This list isn't about judging. It's about the reckoning.